Realising we'll never get what we want ... the only real conclusion remains that we need to enjoy what we have … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Realising we'll never get what we want ... the only real conclusion remains that we need to enjoy what we have … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

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We all ... analyse life.

And the people around us.

Trying to understand all.

But you know why?!

Well ... i believe we need to know everything ... so that we can get all from those connections we have.

Maybe even ... take advantage from them.

So ... we dig deep.

Try to really understand the profile.

All of them.

All related with the personality.

... but also with the soul.

And ... everything related to the real life.

So ... we go beyond the boundaries ... but unfortunately many, many times we realise .... it's not what we thought it is.

... that person being totally different than the projection from our minds.

 

We become ... disappointed.

Extremely.

Cause nothing is how we've expected to be.

And ... realistically ... if we would be honest enough ... we could accept that many of our relationships are based on needs and in fact ... all sorts of silly interests.

Fortunately ... or unfortunately ... the time reveals all.

For both sides.

Our real intentions.

But also ... the fact that most probably we'll not get what we want.

So ...

What should we do?!

Well ...

I smile today realising all those reasons ... beyond relationships of any type.

Yes.

I smile.

Even laugh.

Most probably ... we should just readapt.

And ... simply enjoy what we get.

I remember a weird episode from my life.

Even if i am not proud of it.

And you'll laugh hearing the story.

The director of a company i was working with ... proposed me to bribe him and he will double the contract we have together.

He told me exactly what he wants ... and I've agreed with him.

But later on he started to act like he totally forgot

 

everything.

I could not believe it.

So I've told him to resign the contract ... even if they already payed me.

He just smiled saying ... "It's ok. No problem. I agree. I simply tried to get all i could get from you ... for myself and for my company.

I work for this company.

Also for my own interests.

So ... now that you don't agree anymore to give us anything ... i agree to close our relationship."

I could not believe it.

But ... it was my stupidity to agree to bribe him ... proving myself that i am ... one more time ... a man without values.

So ... he realised i loved money.

Of course ... all being obvious ... cause i was a businessman.

He pushed me ... beyond my limits ... making me to accept to bribe him.

And ... continuing to push the things ... trying into the same time to get the best he could get from me ... also as a director of that company.

I still laugh of my stupidity from those times ... but it's a real fact from my past.

A clear example of what i want to say today.

But ... i don't regret anything.

No.

Seeing all ... as a reflection of my dark side ... understanding i need to become a better human on the stage of life ... i think all happened for my benefit.

For my evolution.

 

Not as a businessman.

... but as a soul.

Analysing all ... I continue to see the life itself and its meaning much more clearly.

And ... i am happy.

In one form or another i must do that with all my relationships.

Go beyond the limits ... and benefit of what the Universe wants me to benefit...

Not ... what i had in mind ... into the beginning.

Cause many of my thoughts are just stupid and illusory.

 

 

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